Welcome to Loving the F – Redefining the Forbidden, where we strip away the illusions, speak the truth no one wants to say out loud, and embrace the messy, beautiful process of becoming.

I’m Melissa—storyteller, truth-seeker, and someone who’s lived enough life to know that transformation isn’t about following someone else’s roadmap. It’s about breaking the rules, trusting your own damn intuition, and blazing your own trail forward.

This isn’t a self-help podcast. I’m not here to tell you what to do—I’m sharing my own journey, the raw truths we all face, and the reality of what it takes to reinvent yourself from the ground up. Not the Instagram version. Not the polished, pretty, packaged-for-mass-consumption version. The real sh*t.

💡 What to Expect?
✔ Unfiltered Personal Stories – The truth behind transformation.
✔ The Highs, The Lows, and The WTF Moments – No sugarcoating. No pretending.
✔ A Deep Dive into Reinvention – What it really takes to break free from the past.
✔ Trusting Yourself Over the Noise – Because no one else has your answers.

This is about owning your story, trusting yourself, and redefining what’s possible—on your own terms. If that sounds like something you need, pull up a chair.

🎙️ New episodes weekly. Available wherever you get your podcasts.

🔗 Connect with Me:
📲 Instagram: TheMelissaAllison
📲 TikTok: TheMelissaAllison
📩 Email: forbiddenqueen64@gmail.com

🚀 Because the F isn’t just for “forbidden” – it’s for freedom.

About your host

Melissa Allison

Most people spend their lives playing by the rules.
Melissa Allison spent years breaking free from them.
After following the “smart” path—staying in the marriage, following the faith, listening to everyone but herself—she finally asked: What if the thing I fear most… is exactly what I’m meant to do?
That single thought changed everything.
Melissa walked away from a 16-year toxic marriage and the religion she was born into. She went back to college (for the 3rd time)—despite being dyslexic, despite the doubts—and graduated with honors. She let go of the lies that kept her small and chose a life built on freedom, growth, and evolution.
That’s what Loving the F is all about. The fears, the failures, and the freedoms we’ve been told we can’t have.
Because you don’t need permission to go after what you want.
You just need to rewrite the narrative.
Regarding reinvention, Melissa said:
"I wanted to reinvent myself and thought I had to change everything. What I discovered is first, it’s not a reinvention—it’s a remembering. And second, the only thing I had to change was my narrative. Once I did that—everything fell into place."